We all have issues around us that affect our lives. We certainly don't need other people adding to that. I am talking about people I like to refer to as "the negative nannies." These are people that appear to never be happy, always complain and act like there is no way out of a situation. Ever hear the saying "misery loves company?" This is them. Rather than wallow in their own misery, they tend to lower the moral of others so that they can feel up. They say that if you are around a type of crowd for 5 years you will become that. So be around people that are negative nannies and within 5 years you will start being that way too. Unhappy, bitter, and lack of focus.
There are ways to combat this. You don't need to become a negative nanny. First, do not surround yourself with these people. If there is someone in your circle that is negative then cut them out! You do not need their influence. Tell them why if you want. Rather than try to change their outlook on life though, they will start bashing you. A negative nanny thinks nothing is their fault and it is everyone and everything around them.
You may have to work around these people though. It is a little harder to avoid them this way. One thing though is when they start saying something negative put a positive spin on it. For instance, if they are complaining about the employer you both work for, tell them that at least we got a job and that there are thousands of others that would love to be in their position.
Remember, stay away from negative nannies. They will bring you down and that is not something you need. It will affect everything you do. Including getting your own goals accomplished.
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